Sunday, July 18, 2010
Sunday, June 13, 2010
Delay is not Denial
A delay is not a denial from God
by Rick Warren
These things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day! Habakkuk 2:3 (LB)
"Remember how far you've come, not just how far you have to go."
The Bible is filled with examples of how God uses a long process to develop character, especially in leaders. He took eighty years to prepare Moses, including forty in the wilderness. For 14,600 days Moses kept waiting and wondering, "Is it time yet?" But God kept saying, "Not yet."
Contrary to popular book titles, there are no Easy Steps to Maturity or Secrets of Instant Sainthood. When God wants to make a giant oak, he takes a hundred years, but when he want to make a mushroom, he does it overnight. Great souls are grown through struggles and storms and seasons of suffering. Be patient with the process. James advised, "Don't try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed." (James 1:4, Msg)
Don't get discouraged. When Habakkuk became depressed because he didn't think God was acting quickly enough, God had this to say: "These things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!" (Habakkuk 2:3, LB)
Remember how far you've come, not just how far you have to go. You are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be. Years ago people wore a popular button with the letters PBPGINFWMY. It stood for "Please Be Patient, God Is Not Finished With Me Yet." God isn't finished with you, either, so keep moving forward. Even the snail reached the ark by persevering!
In what area of your spiritual growth do you need to be more patient and persistent?
by Rick Warren
These things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day! Habakkuk 2:3 (LB)
"Remember how far you've come, not just how far you have to go."
The Bible is filled with examples of how God uses a long process to develop character, especially in leaders. He took eighty years to prepare Moses, including forty in the wilderness. For 14,600 days Moses kept waiting and wondering, "Is it time yet?" But God kept saying, "Not yet."
Contrary to popular book titles, there are no Easy Steps to Maturity or Secrets of Instant Sainthood. When God wants to make a giant oak, he takes a hundred years, but when he want to make a mushroom, he does it overnight. Great souls are grown through struggles and storms and seasons of suffering. Be patient with the process. James advised, "Don't try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed." (James 1:4, Msg)
Don't get discouraged. When Habakkuk became depressed because he didn't think God was acting quickly enough, God had this to say: "These things I plan won't happen right away. Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled. If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass. Just be patient! They will not be overdue a single day!" (Habakkuk 2:3, LB)
Remember how far you've come, not just how far you have to go. You are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be. Years ago people wore a popular button with the letters PBPGINFWMY. It stood for "Please Be Patient, God Is Not Finished With Me Yet." God isn't finished with you, either, so keep moving forward. Even the snail reached the ark by persevering!
In what area of your spiritual growth do you need to be more patient and persistent?
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Wisdom
Today's devtional by Rick Warren is great. It is a great reminder that when we need guidance and clarity then all we have to do is ask for God's wisdom and he will give it to us.
Need wisdom? Just ask.
by Rick Warren
"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." (James 1:5 NIV)
Need wisdom? We all do. And the good news is that God wants to give it to you. He is eager to do so.
Just like it pleased God when Solomon asked for wisdom (1 Kings 3:7-14), it pleases God when we ask for wisdom. It's God's nature to give. He is a giving God.
The Bible says in James 1:5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." (NIV)
This verse says three things about how God gives wisdom. He does so:
Continually. "Ask God who gives ..." In Greek this is in the continuous tense. He keeps on giving. He doesn't run out of energy. He never wears out.
Generously. God's resources are unlimited. He has enough resources for everyone. He's got plenty of wisdom to go around.
Cheerfully. James says God gives "without finding fault." God loves to give. It's in his nature to give! Don't get embarrassed to ask. He wants to give you wisdom!
Where do you need wisdom? Got a big decision coming with your career, your marriage, or your kids? God wants to help. He has wisdom to offer. But remember what James says. If you want wisdom from God, you've got to ask! If you ask, he'll give it.
That's a promise!
Need wisdom? Just ask.
by Rick Warren
"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." (James 1:5 NIV)
Need wisdom? We all do. And the good news is that God wants to give it to you. He is eager to do so.
Just like it pleased God when Solomon asked for wisdom (1 Kings 3:7-14), it pleases God when we ask for wisdom. It's God's nature to give. He is a giving God.
The Bible says in James 1:5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." (NIV)
This verse says three things about how God gives wisdom. He does so:
Continually. "Ask God who gives ..." In Greek this is in the continuous tense. He keeps on giving. He doesn't run out of energy. He never wears out.
Generously. God's resources are unlimited. He has enough resources for everyone. He's got plenty of wisdom to go around.
Cheerfully. James says God gives "without finding fault." God loves to give. It's in his nature to give! Don't get embarrassed to ask. He wants to give you wisdom!
Where do you need wisdom? Got a big decision coming with your career, your marriage, or your kids? God wants to help. He has wisdom to offer. But remember what James says. If you want wisdom from God, you've got to ask! If you ask, he'll give it.
That's a promise!
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
A God-Fashioned Life
I was reading my devotional this morning and it was so inspiring because I have been going through a season of waiting and resting on the Lord. It is very tempting in those moments to get frustrated and impatient and think that God is not listening or working behind the scenes. But the truth is, he is! We just have to realize that God is more interested in building and shaping our Character than he is in fulfilling our prayers. We just have to keep the right perspective and when we do then God is right there to bless us! Here is the devotional from today:
A God-Fashioned Life
by Rick Warren
Take on an entirely new way of life - a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you. Ephesians 4:22-24 (MSG)
"God's ultimate goal for your life on earth is not comfort, but character development. He wants you to grow up spiritually and become like Christ. Becoming like Christ does not mean losing your personality or becoming a mindless clone. "
Many religions and New Age philosophies promote the old lie that we are divine or can become gods. Let me be absolutely clear: you will never become God, or even a god.
That prideful lie is Satan's oldest temptation. Satan promised Adam and Eve that if they followed his advice, "you shall be as gods." (Genesis 3:5 KJV)
This desire to be a god shows up every time we try to control our circumstances, our future, and people around us. But as creatures, we will never be the Creator. God doesn't want you to become a god; he wants you to become godly, taking on his values, attitudes, and character. We are meant to "take on an entirely new way of life - a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you." (Ephesians 4:22-24 MSG)
God's ultimate goal for your life on earth is not comfort, but character development. He wants you to grow up spiritually and become like Christ. Becoming like Christ does not mean losing your personality or becoming a mindless clone.
God created your uniqueness, so he certainly doesn't want to destroy it. Christlikeness is all about transforming your character, not your personality.
God wants you to develop the kind of character described in the Beatitudes of Jesus, the fruit of the Spirit, Paul's great chapter on love, and Peter's list of the characteristics of an effective and productive life. (Matthew 5:1-12; Galatians 5:22-23; 1 Corinthians 13; 2 Peter 1:5-8)
Every time you forget that character is one of God's purposes for your life, you will become frustrated by your circumstances. You'll wonder, "Why is this happening to me? Why am I having such a difficult time?" One answer is that life is supposed to be difficult! It's what enables us to grow. Remember, earth is not heaven!
Many Christians misinterpret Jesus' promise of the "abundant life" (John 10:10) to mean perfect health, a comfortable lifestyle, constant happiness, full realization of your dreams, and instant relief from problems through faith and prayer.
In a word, they expect the Christian life to be easy. They expect heaven on earth.
This self-absorbed perspective treats God as a genie who simply exists to serve you in your selfish pursuit of personal fulfillment. But God is not your servant, and if you fall for the idea that life is supposed to be easy, either you will become severely disillusioned or you will live in denial of reality.
Never forget that life is not about you! You exist for God's purposes, not vice versa. Why would God provide heaven on earth when he's planned the real thing for you in eternity? God gives us our time on earth to build and strengthen our character for heaven.
A God-Fashioned Life
by Rick Warren
Take on an entirely new way of life - a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you. Ephesians 4:22-24 (MSG)
"God's ultimate goal for your life on earth is not comfort, but character development. He wants you to grow up spiritually and become like Christ. Becoming like Christ does not mean losing your personality or becoming a mindless clone. "
Many religions and New Age philosophies promote the old lie that we are divine or can become gods. Let me be absolutely clear: you will never become God, or even a god.
That prideful lie is Satan's oldest temptation. Satan promised Adam and Eve that if they followed his advice, "you shall be as gods." (Genesis 3:5 KJV)
This desire to be a god shows up every time we try to control our circumstances, our future, and people around us. But as creatures, we will never be the Creator. God doesn't want you to become a god; he wants you to become godly, taking on his values, attitudes, and character. We are meant to "take on an entirely new way of life - a God-fashioned life, a life renewed from the inside and working itself into your conduct as God accurately reproduces his character in you." (Ephesians 4:22-24 MSG)
God's ultimate goal for your life on earth is not comfort, but character development. He wants you to grow up spiritually and become like Christ. Becoming like Christ does not mean losing your personality or becoming a mindless clone.
God created your uniqueness, so he certainly doesn't want to destroy it. Christlikeness is all about transforming your character, not your personality.
God wants you to develop the kind of character described in the Beatitudes of Jesus, the fruit of the Spirit, Paul's great chapter on love, and Peter's list of the characteristics of an effective and productive life. (Matthew 5:1-12; Galatians 5:22-23; 1 Corinthians 13; 2 Peter 1:5-8)
Every time you forget that character is one of God's purposes for your life, you will become frustrated by your circumstances. You'll wonder, "Why is this happening to me? Why am I having such a difficult time?" One answer is that life is supposed to be difficult! It's what enables us to grow. Remember, earth is not heaven!
Many Christians misinterpret Jesus' promise of the "abundant life" (John 10:10) to mean perfect health, a comfortable lifestyle, constant happiness, full realization of your dreams, and instant relief from problems through faith and prayer.
In a word, they expect the Christian life to be easy. They expect heaven on earth.
This self-absorbed perspective treats God as a genie who simply exists to serve you in your selfish pursuit of personal fulfillment. But God is not your servant, and if you fall for the idea that life is supposed to be easy, either you will become severely disillusioned or you will live in denial of reality.
Never forget that life is not about you! You exist for God's purposes, not vice versa. Why would God provide heaven on earth when he's planned the real thing for you in eternity? God gives us our time on earth to build and strengthen our character for heaven.
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Defining Moments
We often think of Defining Moments to be something good and exciting that has happened to us, like getting married or graduating from school. Unfortunately, most of the defining moments in my life how come out of what I thought were horrible disappointments. I have been reflecting on things in my life that at the time when I experienced them I thought they were awful. Here is one of those moments.
When I was 19 years old I was living in Nashville TN pursuing music. I kept facing one difficult challenge after another. I was becoming more and more sucked into the music scene and all that that lifestyle entails. It's fascinating how quickly you can fall for anything if you aren't standing for something. I decided I was going to apply for Belmont, the music school in Nashville. That would be a way for me to pursue music in a much better atmosphere. I told myself that was going to be my last straw. I had everything riding on getting into this school. I finally was told that I wasn't accepted. I don't think anyone truly knew how disappointing that was for me. I was so devastated and basically thought everything was over for me.
A few months after being rejected from the school I started praying again. Isn't it sad that we go to God more in our down times instead of happy times. After journaling for awhile and reflecting on what it was that God really wanted for me, that I started having a desire for Fashion. Within that month, I found FIDM in Los Angeles and got accepted into the school. It's amazing how God redirects your life. I would have never moved to LA if I would have got into Belmont. At the time, I couldn't see what the Lord was doing but now that I look back on it, it makes perfect sense. His plan is perfect! Since then, when I face disappointing circumstances in my life, I try to reflect on that moment and realize that God is bringing something bigger and better than I could ever imagine my way. Now today, I wouldn't have wanted to go to Belmont. I am exactly where I want to be.....The thing is I just didn't know it at the time but God did!
When I was 19 years old I was living in Nashville TN pursuing music. I kept facing one difficult challenge after another. I was becoming more and more sucked into the music scene and all that that lifestyle entails. It's fascinating how quickly you can fall for anything if you aren't standing for something. I decided I was going to apply for Belmont, the music school in Nashville. That would be a way for me to pursue music in a much better atmosphere. I told myself that was going to be my last straw. I had everything riding on getting into this school. I finally was told that I wasn't accepted. I don't think anyone truly knew how disappointing that was for me. I was so devastated and basically thought everything was over for me.
A few months after being rejected from the school I started praying again. Isn't it sad that we go to God more in our down times instead of happy times. After journaling for awhile and reflecting on what it was that God really wanted for me, that I started having a desire for Fashion. Within that month, I found FIDM in Los Angeles and got accepted into the school. It's amazing how God redirects your life. I would have never moved to LA if I would have got into Belmont. At the time, I couldn't see what the Lord was doing but now that I look back on it, it makes perfect sense. His plan is perfect! Since then, when I face disappointing circumstances in my life, I try to reflect on that moment and realize that God is bringing something bigger and better than I could ever imagine my way. Now today, I wouldn't have wanted to go to Belmont. I am exactly where I want to be.....The thing is I just didn't know it at the time but God did!
Sunday, April 4, 2010
How Miracles Happen: 6 Phases of Faith
Happy Easter! Are you looking for a miracle? Here are my notes from Pastor Rick's Easter sermon.
6 Phases of Faith- You will face these phases while on your journey
1) Dream -What is your Dream? What would you love to do?
2) Decision -Decide to step out and make the decision to pursue it
3) Delay - Stay on track. It's not on your timing that the Dream comes to pass but on God's time
4) Difficulty -God is testing and growing you as a person. Perservere
5) Dead End -You feel like giving up. When this stage happens to you then you are on the verge of a break through. A break through that only God can do. Remember a Dream is suppose to glorify God
6) Deliverance -Your Dream Fulfulled!
Luke 18:27 "What is impossible for people to do is possible for God."
Also, check out the book " The Dream Giver"
6 Phases of Faith- You will face these phases while on your journey
1) Dream -What is your Dream? What would you love to do?
2) Decision -Decide to step out and make the decision to pursue it
3) Delay - Stay on track. It's not on your timing that the Dream comes to pass but on God's time
4) Difficulty -God is testing and growing you as a person. Perservere
5) Dead End -You feel like giving up. When this stage happens to you then you are on the verge of a break through. A break through that only God can do. Remember a Dream is suppose to glorify God
6) Deliverance -Your Dream Fulfulled!
Luke 18:27 "What is impossible for people to do is possible for God."
Also, check out the book " The Dream Giver"
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Learning About Men
So the last few weeks have been pretty busy but I am taking the time to read a great book called "For Women Only" by Shaunti Feldhahn. What you need to know about the inner lives of men. It is so fascinating to me to learn the differences between the way men and women are wired. Have you ever thought that you could drastically change your relationship for the better just by being able to understand your man more? Well you can! I want to share the chapter topics with you. I encourage every woman to read this book!!
1) Lightbulb On!...How I Woke Up to What I Didn't Know About Men
2) Your Love Is Not Enough.....Why Your Respect Means More to Him than Even Your Affection
3) The Performance of a Lifetime....Why Your Mr. Smooth Looks So Impressive but Feels Like an Impostor
4) The Loneliest Burden.....How His Need to Provide Weighs Your Man Down, and Why He Likes It That Way
5) Sex Changes Everything.....Why Sex Unlocks a Man's Emotions..(Guess Who Holds the Keys!)
6) Keeper of the Visual Rolodex.....Why It's So Natural for Him to Look and So Hard to Forget What He's Seen
7) Chocolate, Flowers, Bait Fishing.....Why the Reluctant Clod You Know Really Does Want Romance
8) The Truth About the Way You Look......Why What's on the Outside Matters to Him on the Inside
9) Words for Your Heart......What Your Man Most Wishes You Knew About Him
1) Lightbulb On!...How I Woke Up to What I Didn't Know About Men
2) Your Love Is Not Enough.....Why Your Respect Means More to Him than Even Your Affection
3) The Performance of a Lifetime....Why Your Mr. Smooth Looks So Impressive but Feels Like an Impostor
4) The Loneliest Burden.....How His Need to Provide Weighs Your Man Down, and Why He Likes It That Way
5) Sex Changes Everything.....Why Sex Unlocks a Man's Emotions..(Guess Who Holds the Keys!)
6) Keeper of the Visual Rolodex.....Why It's So Natural for Him to Look and So Hard to Forget What He's Seen
7) Chocolate, Flowers, Bait Fishing.....Why the Reluctant Clod You Know Really Does Want Romance
8) The Truth About the Way You Look......Why What's on the Outside Matters to Him on the Inside
9) Words for Your Heart......What Your Man Most Wishes You Knew About Him
Thursday, March 18, 2010
In Hard Times
Don't you wish everything in life could be wonderful and perfect all the time? Life would be so much easier that way. Unfortunately, living on earth isn't like it. You can have something so great happen to you and in the very same day get the worst news ever. Today, I had a family member pass away. She was a second grandmother to me. Having a conversation with her would make you feel like you were in the presence of God. I know she is in a better place but things like these are always hard to accept. Yesterday I was reading in Classic Christianity this quote. This brings me encouragement. Hopefully, if you have lost a loved one or are going through a hard time it will also lift you up.
Classic Christianity Page 179
"I don't know for sure what God's will is in regard to your situation, "I answer, "but I do know this: It's God's will that you give thanks in this situation."
Why would God tell us to give thanks in all circumstances, even in bad ones? Because giving thanks is a concrete expression of our faith in God-that our lives are in His hands, and that we are trusting Him to fulfill His promise in Romans 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose." The result of trusting God with our lives and expressing that faith through giving thanks is a freedom and peace that is supernatural:
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6,7)
Classic Christianity Page 179
"I don't know for sure what God's will is in regard to your situation, "I answer, "but I do know this: It's God's will that you give thanks in this situation."
Why would God tell us to give thanks in all circumstances, even in bad ones? Because giving thanks is a concrete expression of our faith in God-that our lives are in His hands, and that we are trusting Him to fulfill His promise in Romans 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose." The result of trusting God with our lives and expressing that faith through giving thanks is a freedom and peace that is supernatural:
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6,7)
Monday, March 15, 2010
Spiritual Gifts vs. Natural Talents
I took a class at Saddleback Church to understand more about myself. It's great to sit down and discover things about yourself that you never realized or maybe never thought about. Here are the points that I am reflecting on this week.
Gifts are not to be confused with natural talents.
Natural talents are given at birth.
*Received from biological parents
*Present from natural birth
*Benefit people in the earthly realm
*Advance "Man's plan"
*Results are (usually) temporal
*Glorify self
Spiritual Gifts
*Given by God through the Holy Spirit
*Present the moment someone gives their life to Christ
*Benefit people in the spiritual realm
*Advance God's plans
*Results are always eternal
*Glorify God
A Spiritual Gift is a special ability, given by the Holy Spirit to every believer at their conversion, to be used to minister to others and therefore build up the body of Christ.
Here is a list of the spiritual gifts. Which ones do you recognize in your own life?
*Administration
*Apostle
*Discernment
*Encouragement
*Evangelism
*Faith
*Giving
*Healing
*Hospitality
*Knowledge
*Leadership
*Mercy
*Miracles
*Pastoring
*Preaching
*Service
*Teaching
*Praying with my Spirit
*Wisdom
I am in the process of writing out and studying both my spiritual and natural gifts. You can look up these versus to learn more if you would like to do the same in your life!
1 Corinthians 12, Ephesians 4 and Romans 12
Gifts are not to be confused with natural talents.
Natural talents are given at birth.
*Received from biological parents
*Present from natural birth
*Benefit people in the earthly realm
*Advance "Man's plan"
*Results are (usually) temporal
*Glorify self
Spiritual Gifts
*Given by God through the Holy Spirit
*Present the moment someone gives their life to Christ
*Benefit people in the spiritual realm
*Advance God's plans
*Results are always eternal
*Glorify God
A Spiritual Gift is a special ability, given by the Holy Spirit to every believer at their conversion, to be used to minister to others and therefore build up the body of Christ.
Here is a list of the spiritual gifts. Which ones do you recognize in your own life?
*Administration
*Apostle
*Discernment
*Encouragement
*Evangelism
*Faith
*Giving
*Healing
*Hospitality
*Knowledge
*Leadership
*Mercy
*Miracles
*Pastoring
*Preaching
*Service
*Teaching
*Praying with my Spirit
*Wisdom
I am in the process of writing out and studying both my spiritual and natural gifts. You can look up these versus to learn more if you would like to do the same in your life!
1 Corinthians 12, Ephesians 4 and Romans 12
Friday, March 12, 2010
Perseverance
The other day I was praying for the Lord to give me a sign on what he is calling me to do with my life. When I came across 1 Timothy 4:11-16 I thought my heart was going to jump out of my chest. About a year ago, I was visiting a church and this elderly lady prophesied over me. She was basically saying how I used to sing for the Lord but now had stopped singing. She went on to say that the Lord was telling her it was the time for me to start it up again. Well, this past year I haven't done anything with it because I truly haven't felt the desire to start working on music again. Then after seeking the Lord these past few months I have these below verses on my heart. I feel sometimes we have to persevere through something when we know the Lord is telling us to do something. Sometimes it doesn't feel good but I am believing if we listen then the reward with be fulfilling. What is something that you feel the Lord is telling you to do that you keep putting off? Hopefully these scripture will encourage you!
1 Timothy 4:11-16 (New International Version)
11Command and teach these things. 12Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity. 13Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to preaching and to teaching.14Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through a prophetic message when the body of elders laid their hands on you.15Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress. 16Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.
1 Timothy 4:11-16 (New International Version)
11Command and teach these things. 12Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity. 13Until I come, devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to preaching and to teaching.14Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through a prophetic message when the body of elders laid their hands on you.15Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress. 16Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Transparency
I have been reflecting a lot on the idea of being transparent.
Transparent means -easy to see through, understand, or recognize; obvious
I am discovering that we are meant to live a life of transparency. Basically saying, allow my life to be an open book to others. For myself and I'm sure for others this concept is really difficult and uncomfortable. I have a tendency to not want to talk about the things in my life that were difficult to deal with. I would rather lock them in a closet deep in my heart and never have to deal with them. Or, if I have delt with the hurt of those issues then I don't want to have to relive them by sharing them with others. But the truth is discovering our destiny will eventually lead to a risky self identification. Have you ever wondered why God says he brings all things together for good? Well, it is because when we have experienced healing from a situation in our lives then we are more willing to help other people going through the same thing.
Don't you love it when a friend shares something with you that you are also dealing with? It is so freeing knowing that someone can relate with you.
Identify is to Testify. What are some area's in your own life that you feel like God can use you to help others who might be going through that same situation right now? Maybe by sharing our story, we can bring healing and freedom to others.
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Transparent means -easy to see through, understand, or recognize; obvious
I am discovering that we are meant to live a life of transparency. Basically saying, allow my life to be an open book to others. For myself and I'm sure for others this concept is really difficult and uncomfortable. I have a tendency to not want to talk about the things in my life that were difficult to deal with. I would rather lock them in a closet deep in my heart and never have to deal with them. Or, if I have delt with the hurt of those issues then I don't want to have to relive them by sharing them with others. But the truth is discovering our destiny will eventually lead to a risky self identification. Have you ever wondered why God says he brings all things together for good? Well, it is because when we have experienced healing from a situation in our lives then we are more willing to help other people going through the same thing.
Don't you love it when a friend shares something with you that you are also dealing with? It is so freeing knowing that someone can relate with you.
Identify is to Testify. What are some area's in your own life that you feel like God can use you to help others who might be going through that same situation right now? Maybe by sharing our story, we can bring healing and freedom to others.
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Monday, March 8, 2010
Busyness
The thing I struggle with the most in life is busyness. I get an idea and I want to run with it...well more like 5 ideas and I try to run with all of them at the same time. Then, I usually get burned out and wonder how it happened. Can you relate? It's so frustrating! Well right now, I feel like I am in a season of being tested in that area. I feel like the Lord is telling me to slow down, to refocus on him and to reprioritize my life. This is a quote from the ACTS International blog.
Whatever the cause, if the over-active person sits still for long, his or her inner pain of not feeling okay begins to rise to consciousness. He or she then feels empty, bored, lonely, tired, depressed, or restless. To quieten this pain, he or she just keeps busy, busy, busy.
One escapes his or her pain by becoming an alcoholic. Another, a workaholic. In God's sight there's no difference.
One of the most important lessons in life for every individual to learn and teach his or her children is this: One's worth as a person is never dependent on his or her performance—good or bad. Every person is worthwhile because he or she has been created by God in his image, and loved fully and unconditionally by him.
You can read this great article at http://www.actsweb.org/articles/article.php?i=124&d=1&c=6&p=2
Whatever the cause, if the over-active person sits still for long, his or her inner pain of not feeling okay begins to rise to consciousness. He or she then feels empty, bored, lonely, tired, depressed, or restless. To quieten this pain, he or she just keeps busy, busy, busy.
One escapes his or her pain by becoming an alcoholic. Another, a workaholic. In God's sight there's no difference.
One of the most important lessons in life for every individual to learn and teach his or her children is this: One's worth as a person is never dependent on his or her performance—good or bad. Every person is worthwhile because he or she has been created by God in his image, and loved fully and unconditionally by him.
You can read this great article at http://www.actsweb.org/articles/article.php?i=124&d=1&c=6&p=2
Friday, March 5, 2010
Habits
Have you ever wondered why you do the things you do? How aware are you of your thoughts & actions? Do you believe that your thoughts are powerful to your daily outcome? Well I am in the process of studying Discovering My Spiritual Growth workbook from Saddleback Church (Pastor Rick Warren).
What is a Habit? -A continual, often unconscious inclination to do a certain activity, acquired through frequent repetition.
Sow a thought, reap an act.
Sow an act, reap a habit.
Sow a habit, reap a character.
Sow a character, reap a destiny.
Romans 12:1-2 "And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will find acceptable. This is the true way to worship him. Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect."
Again, if we want to know what God's will is for our lives then we just need to make sure we are doing what this verse says.
My goal this year is to learn as much about God's character as I can. What is your goal?
What is a Habit? -A continual, often unconscious inclination to do a certain activity, acquired through frequent repetition.
Sow a thought, reap an act.
Sow an act, reap a habit.
Sow a habit, reap a character.
Sow a character, reap a destiny.
Romans 12:1-2 "And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will find acceptable. This is the true way to worship him. Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect."
Again, if we want to know what God's will is for our lives then we just need to make sure we are doing what this verse says.
My goal this year is to learn as much about God's character as I can. What is your goal?
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Doubt
I was reading my devotional today and the topic is Doubt. I didn't realize the opposite of wisdom is doubt. This could not have come at a better time. I have my moments of doubt while I am waiting on the Lord to reveal his next steps for my life. However, this scripture brings peace and clarity to know that if we have wisdom then we cannot doubt.
James 1:6 "But when you ask him, be sure that you really expect him to answer, for a doubtful mind is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind."
What are you believing God for today? Have you looked into the scripture to see what he says about it? Once he gives you that promise then rest assure that in his timing it will come to pass!
James 1:6 "But when you ask him, be sure that you really expect him to answer, for a doubtful mind is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind."
What are you believing God for today? Have you looked into the scripture to see what he says about it? Once he gives you that promise then rest assure that in his timing it will come to pass!
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Law vs. Grace
I am in the middle of reading the book Classic Christianity by Bob George. The book has a way to bring Christianity back to the basis. Right now, I am in the chapter dealing with Condemnation. I believe it would be amazing if we were able to truly realize God's Grace. This page is to good for me to summarize, so I am going to quote it from page 124:
Law and grace is the issue of God's acceptance. In other word, on what basis is a man made acceptable to God? There are only three possible answers. Man is made (or tries to make himself) acceptable to God by law, by grace, or by a third, hybrid means called Galatianism.
1) Law. Man is responsible to make himself acceptable to God by his work. You are accepted by God according to what you do or don't do. You can easily identify law by the presence of a small two-letter word: "if" "If you do this then God will accept you." Obviously, the opposite must also be true: "If you don't, He won't."
2) Grace. God gives to man a standing of total acceptance as a gift through Jesus Christ. Man's work in no way contributes to God's acceptance of him. Once Jesus was asked, "What must we do to do the works God requires?" Jesus answered, "The work of God is this: to believe in the One He has sent" (John 6:28,29) By faith and faith alone a man receives the gift of righteousness in Christ.
Ephesians 2:8,9 is as direct a statement as you can find in the Bible: "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-not by works, so that no one can boast."
3) Galatianism. The attempt to mingle law and grace, Galatianism takes many forms, but sooner or later it always ends up in a meaningless contradiction: "God's grace has made it possible for man to work for His acceptance and forgiveness" or "God loves us unconditionally if we keep all the rules." Law is the realm of what you earn by your performance. Grace is the realm of receiving a free gift. How could you ever mingle the two?
This is like a friend saying that they were going to give you a free car for only $1,000. Wait a minute, I thought you said it was free? A true gift is free.
Bob George goes on to say.." People are attracted to Christ by the message of His total love and acceptance and of salvation by grace; then, once they're in the family of God, they are leveled by demands for performance and conformity. But the Bible says that we can't have it both ways. And if by grace, then it is no longer by works; if it were, grace would no longer be grace. Romans 11:6"
Isn't it great that we can rest in the fact that we don't have to stay down on ourselves about not being all that we think we should be. The Lord loves us just the way we are. We don't have to do anything but receive and believe it!
Law and grace is the issue of God's acceptance. In other word, on what basis is a man made acceptable to God? There are only three possible answers. Man is made (or tries to make himself) acceptable to God by law, by grace, or by a third, hybrid means called Galatianism.
1) Law. Man is responsible to make himself acceptable to God by his work. You are accepted by God according to what you do or don't do. You can easily identify law by the presence of a small two-letter word: "if" "If you do this then God will accept you." Obviously, the opposite must also be true: "If you don't, He won't."
2) Grace. God gives to man a standing of total acceptance as a gift through Jesus Christ. Man's work in no way contributes to God's acceptance of him. Once Jesus was asked, "What must we do to do the works God requires?" Jesus answered, "The work of God is this: to believe in the One He has sent" (John 6:28,29) By faith and faith alone a man receives the gift of righteousness in Christ.
Ephesians 2:8,9 is as direct a statement as you can find in the Bible: "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-not by works, so that no one can boast."
3) Galatianism. The attempt to mingle law and grace, Galatianism takes many forms, but sooner or later it always ends up in a meaningless contradiction: "God's grace has made it possible for man to work for His acceptance and forgiveness" or "God loves us unconditionally if we keep all the rules." Law is the realm of what you earn by your performance. Grace is the realm of receiving a free gift. How could you ever mingle the two?
This is like a friend saying that they were going to give you a free car for only $1,000. Wait a minute, I thought you said it was free? A true gift is free.
Bob George goes on to say.." People are attracted to Christ by the message of His total love and acceptance and of salvation by grace; then, once they're in the family of God, they are leveled by demands for performance and conformity. But the Bible says that we can't have it both ways. And if by grace, then it is no longer by works; if it were, grace would no longer be grace. Romans 11:6"
Isn't it great that we can rest in the fact that we don't have to stay down on ourselves about not being all that we think we should be. The Lord loves us just the way we are. We don't have to do anything but receive and believe it!
Monday, March 1, 2010
Destiny
Beth Moore’s Bible Study of Esther
I have been in this study for the last 2 months and every week becomes more exciting! I want to share with you some of the things I have learned so far from this study. Trust me, their will be more to come though!
Have you ever wondered what is so interesting and intriguing about Esther? I have always heard stories about how so many women want to be like her, but why? Because she was a Queen? Yeah being a queen would be nice but I have been asking the question what is it about her that truly is so special? Here are my thoughts that the Lord is unveiling to me daily. I hope this is able to inspire you to also look down deep inside to see what your Destiny is!
So, what is so special about a beautiful woman becoming a queen ? How would this have anything to do with my life? Ever have those thoughts? I would encourage you too read the book and then go back and include these amazing facts afterwards.
Beth Moore has helped me break it down and look at the history behind this book. What an amazing discovery! Here are a few points that have opened my eyes to the meaning of this book.
-Esther was a orphaned Jew. This means in Persian law it is almost impossible for her to become a queen. Orphaned children were looked down on in this time in history. Also, her being a Jew. If you notice in the scripture Esther 2:10 Mordecai instructed her to keep her family history a secret. Why do you think he did this? We will find out later….
I have been in this study for the last 2 months and every week becomes more exciting! I want to share with you some of the things I have learned so far from this study. Trust me, their will be more to come though!
Have you ever wondered what is so interesting and intriguing about Esther? I have always heard stories about how so many women want to be like her, but why? Because she was a Queen? Yeah being a queen would be nice but I have been asking the question what is it about her that truly is so special? Here are my thoughts that the Lord is unveiling to me daily. I hope this is able to inspire you to also look down deep inside to see what your Destiny is!
So, what is so special about a beautiful woman becoming a queen ? How would this have anything to do with my life? Ever have those thoughts? I would encourage you too read the book and then go back and include these amazing facts afterwards.
Beth Moore has helped me break it down and look at the history behind this book. What an amazing discovery! Here are a few points that have opened my eyes to the meaning of this book.
-Esther was a orphaned Jew. This means in Persian law it is almost impossible for her to become a queen. Orphaned children were looked down on in this time in history. Also, her being a Jew. If you notice in the scripture Esther 2:10 Mordecai instructed her to keep her family history a secret. Why do you think he did this? We will find out later….
Friday, February 26, 2010
Friendships
I want to share with you the daily devotional that I received today. I think we all want meaningful friendships/relationships in our lives. These steps are great to apply.
Connect by being candid
by Rick Warren
"An honest answer is the sign of a true friendship." Proverbs 24:26 (GNT)
The fourth key to connecting with people is this: Be candid about problems in the relationship.
Being candid and being connected go together. You don't have one without the other. Genuine, healthy, deep, meaningful relationships are built on honesty, not on flattery. Flattery is a sign of a manipulator, not a sign of somebody who is genuinely your friend.
All of us have blind spots. The question that really matters is, do you have anybody in your life who loves you enough to point them out? You cannot grow unless somebody points out the things that you can't see in your life, but that need changing. Let me give you three rules for being candid in relationships:
1. Compliment in public, correct in private. Do this with your children, your spouse, your employees, and your friends.
2. Correct when they're up and not down. When I'm feeling good, I can handle almost any correction. When I'm feeling tired, I can't handle anything. Timing is everything when you're being candid.
3. Never offer correction until you've proven that you are also willing to be corrected. Remember, seek to understand before seeking to be understood. You open up your life before you expecting someone else to be open with you.
Connecting means we care enough to be candid. Who do you need to get honest with? Is there an issue you need to be candid about? "An honest answer is the sign of a true friendship." (Proverbs 24:26 GNT)
Connect by being candid
by Rick Warren
"An honest answer is the sign of a true friendship." Proverbs 24:26 (GNT)
The fourth key to connecting with people is this: Be candid about problems in the relationship.
Being candid and being connected go together. You don't have one without the other. Genuine, healthy, deep, meaningful relationships are built on honesty, not on flattery. Flattery is a sign of a manipulator, not a sign of somebody who is genuinely your friend.
All of us have blind spots. The question that really matters is, do you have anybody in your life who loves you enough to point them out? You cannot grow unless somebody points out the things that you can't see in your life, but that need changing. Let me give you three rules for being candid in relationships:
1. Compliment in public, correct in private. Do this with your children, your spouse, your employees, and your friends.
2. Correct when they're up and not down. When I'm feeling good, I can handle almost any correction. When I'm feeling tired, I can't handle anything. Timing is everything when you're being candid.
3. Never offer correction until you've proven that you are also willing to be corrected. Remember, seek to understand before seeking to be understood. You open up your life before you expecting someone else to be open with you.
Connecting means we care enough to be candid. Who do you need to get honest with? Is there an issue you need to be candid about? "An honest answer is the sign of a true friendship." (Proverbs 24:26 GNT)
Thursday, February 25, 2010
The Will of God
I was listening to Dr. Charles Stanley talk about the Will of God. Here are the notes that I have been reflecting on:
God will break us down in the areas that we need to be freed from. However, we have a free will and if we aren't willing to let God do his work in us then sooner or later he will quit trying and God's will won't be fulfilled in our lives.
God has a Determined Will and a Desired Will. Determined Will are things that God will make happen no matter what. Desired Will is God's Will that he desires for us. In which, we have a free will to decide if we are willing to pursue it. Are you willing to pursue his will for your life?
You probably can order this DVD The Will of God on his website.
God will break us down in the areas that we need to be freed from. However, we have a free will and if we aren't willing to let God do his work in us then sooner or later he will quit trying and God's will won't be fulfilled in our lives.
God has a Determined Will and a Desired Will. Determined Will are things that God will make happen no matter what. Desired Will is God's Will that he desires for us. In which, we have a free will to decide if we are willing to pursue it. Are you willing to pursue his will for your life?
You probably can order this DVD The Will of God on his website.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Bravery
As a woman Bravery is not something I tend to think a lot about. However, after my bible study the other night I feel like I received a huge wake-up call for the woman’s role. Proverbs 31:10 call us to have “noble character” which is translated in Greek to mean Brave. I have read this passage before and never saw it as bravery. I realized that I am not really a brave woman. I have a lot of fears. My biggest fear is that I will put my circumstances in front of trusting in God. Making excuses for not doing what he is asking me to do. Having faith requires being very brave. As I get older, fears somehow take more control of my life. I really miss that child-like optimist and zeal. Where does it go? Well the most common command in the bible is “Do Not Be Afraid” Why do you think the Lord reminds us of that so often? I believe because it is the thing we struggle with the most in our lives. Wouldn’t it be great to have one day go by with no fearful thoughts? What would you think about?
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